He explained that he and Cole had spent their nights in Frank’s guest room and their days working in his workshop.
Frank had known all along that both mothers believed the boys were elsewhere.
“I begged him not to tell you,” Nathan said.
“He’s the adult. He should’ve known better.”
“Why didn’t you ask me?” I continued.
“Because you would’ve said no.”
“You don’t know that.”
“Mom, you won’t even drive down Grandpa’s street.”
Before I could defend myself, Nathan went on.
You told me to take out the trash.”
“You were busy,” he said. “You’re always busy when I ask about Dad.”
I pulled out a chair and faced him. Whatever my failures, the lies still needed consequences.
“You’re staying home next weekend. No sleepovers until we rebuild some trust.”
He accepted that with a nod.
“And tomorrow, I’m going to your grandfather’s house.”
“You’re actually going there?”
“Yes. I want to see what you’ve been doing.”
Tears returned to his eyes.
“Then maybe you’ll understand why I couldn’t stop.”
***
That afternoon, I entered Frank’s home for the first time in three years.
He greeted me at the entrance.
“Laura, I’m sorry.”
“You let two mothers believe their sons were somewhere else for eight weekends.
You could have put an end to that immediately, Frank.”
“Nathan asked me not to tell you.”
“He’s sixteen. You’re the adult, Frank. You should’ve known better!”
He looked at the floor.
“I thought I was helping him.”
“You could’ve helped him without lying. There won’t be another visit without our permission.
And no more overnight stays until you’ve earned back our trust.”
Frank quietly agreed. Denise was also there, accompanied by Cole, to retrieve the equipment he’d left behind.
“Cole wanted to tell us three weeks ago. Nathan convinced him not to.”
I turned toward the boys.
“That wasn’t fair to Cole, Nathan.”
Nathan nodded, ashamed.
“I know. I’m sorry. But, Mom, there’s something I want you to see.”
He brought me into the workshop. A wooden rocking chair stood beneath the window, and recognition hit me immediately.
Michael had begun building it before Nathan’s birth, imagining himself rocking our baby to sleep. He’d never completed it.
Now its missing seat had been installed and the rough wood carefully sanded smooth.
My fingers moved over one armrest.
“You really did this?”
Nathan nodded.
“Cole helped. Grandpa taught us.”
I remembered Michael joking that he’d made one of the legs too short.
“Your dad would’ve loved seeing this.”
Nathan searched my expression.
“Why didn’t you ever tell me about it?”
I had no answer. Frank spoke from the doorway instead.
“There’s something else Nathan hasn’t told you, Laura.”
***
Frank had found a smaller place to live and planned to sell the family house because maintaining it alone had become too difficult.
He’d told Nathan in August.
“That’s why we started coming every weekend,” Nathan said. “Grandpa’s moving in a few weeks.”
I looked at Michael’s handmade furniture, the shelves, and the tools scattered around the workshop.
“You’ve been trying to save all this?”
Nathan nodded.
“I thought if we worked fast enough, we could finish everything before Grandpa moved.”
“We don’t have room for an entire workshop.”
I saw his face close off.
“Of course we don’t, Mom. Of course.”
“Nathan, I didn’t mean…”
“You just got here, Mom. You don’t get to show up now and pretend you were part of this.”
I wanted to explain my grief, but tried another approach.
“What matters most to you? We can bring some things home.”
He glanced helplessly around the room.
“I can’t choose.”
“Then we won’t decide today.”
Nathan walked out. When Frank moved to follow, I gently stopped him.
“Give him a minute.”
***
Denise phoned that evening.
“Cole’s upset. He shouldn’t have had to choose between Nathan and telling me the truth.”
“You’re right. I’ll talk to Nathan.”
Afterward, I knocked on my son’s bedroom door.
“Can we talk?”
He was sitting on his bed.
“If it’s another lecture, I’m tired.”
“It’s about Cole.”
He stared at the floor.
“I know. I shouldn’t have made him lie.”
“You owe him an apology. And no sleepovers until we’ve rebuilt some trust.”
“I understand.”
I sat down beside him.
“There’s something I owe you an apology for too.”
Surprise flickered across his face.
“After Dad died, I thought keeping our lives normal would help us both.”
“You stopped talking about him.”
“I did.”
“Why?”
“Because every conversation reminded me he wasn’t coming home.”
He folded his hands together.
“Sometimes I forget what Dad sounded like.”
His confession hurt more than I could say.
“Grandpa tells me stories,” he continued. “He remembers things I don’t.”
“I should’ve told you stories too.”
“You still could.”
I got to my feet.
“Come with me.”
***
At the back of my bedroom closet sat a box I hadn’t opened since Michael’s death.
I brought it to the bed and removed the lid. Inside lay his notebook, a photograph, his broken watch, and some folded papers.
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